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R. Floyd Asher passed away peacefully at his home on September 17, 2026, surrounded by the love of his devoted family. Born on May 7, 1942, in Kimberly, Nevada, to Reulon Samuel Asher and Cleo Mathis Asher, Floyd lived a life defined by faith, integrity, service, adventure, and an unwavering love for family. A beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, mentor, and friend, Floyd’s remarkable journey touched countless lives and leaves behind a legacy of kindness, wisdom, and enduring devotion.
As the youngest child and only son among three older sisters, Floyd learned early the values of hard work, perseverance, and family loyalty. After moving to Salt Lake City at the age of four, he grew into a man whose character would be shaped by deep faith, genuine compassion, and a sincere love for others. He graduated from South High School, faithfully served a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the New England States, and later earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Management from Brigham Young University.
Floyd proudly and faithfully served our beautiful country as a member of the United States Air Force Reserves for six years. He loved his country deeply and was honored to serve it. His dedication to service, duty, and country reflected the values of faith, integrity, and devotion that he carried with him throughout his life.
Floyd married the love of his life, Melanie Ruth Simmons, in the Salt Lake Temple on July 11, 1977, beginning a partnership built upon faith, fidelity, mutual respect, and selfless devotion. Together they shared forty-nine wonderful years of marriage and created a home centered on love, family, and service. Floyd often spoke of the qualities he admired most in Melanie, not outward appearances, but honesty, integrity, compassion, spiritual strength, wise stewardship, and her remarkable ability to place the needs of others before her own. He frequently expressed gratitude for her unwavering love, her empathy for others, and the countless sacrifices she made for their family. These values formed the foundation of their nearly five decades together and were among the blessings he treasured most.
Throughout his life, Floyd sought to treat every person with dignity and respect. He believed deeply in loving his neighbor, honoring his covenants with God, and using his talents to help those around him. He was known for his willingness to lend a hand, offer encouragement, share wisdom, or tackle a project for anyone in need. Whether family, friend, neighbor, or stranger, Floyd had a gift for making people feel valued. He made friends wherever he went, and those friendships often lasted a lifetime.
Anyone who knew Floyd could easily recognize him and smile at the memory: his beloved BYU hat, sunglasses perched over his reading glasses, and a warm smile never far from his face. He was always ready with a story, a joke, thoughtful advice, or a helping hand. People were naturally drawn to his genuine kindness, quick wit, and caring heart. To know Floyd was truly to love him.
A man of many talents and interests, Floyd spent more than thirty years in the aviation industry as a pilot and flight instructor. Flying was more than a career, it was one of his greatest passions. He loved the freedom of the sky, the challenge of aviation, and the opportunity to teach and mentor others. Even after retirement, his love of travel remained strong, and he continued to seek new adventures and meaningful experiences.
Floyd also had a lifelong love of golf. While he enjoyed the game itself, what mattered most to him were the friendships forged along the fairways. In his later years, one of his greatest joys was found at Southgate Golf Course, where he worked for fifteen years. There he found not only purpose and enjoyment, but a second family. He spoke often and affectionately of Mark, Steve, and the many dear friends he made there. Their companionship, loyalty, and kindness enriched his life immeasurably and brought him tremendous joy.
The Asher family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to everyone at Southgate Golf Course. Thank you for the friendship, laughter, support, and love you showed Floyd throughout the years. You welcomed him as family, stood beside him through difficult days, and helped carry him when he was no longer strong enough to carry himself. The kindness you extended to our husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather will never be forgotten. We are eternally grateful.
An avid outdoorsman, Floyd enjoyed hunting with lifelong friends, collecting firearms, reloading ammunition, and sharing stories from countless adventures. He cherished the friendships that accompanied these pursuits and remained deeply connected to many of those friends throughout his life. Some of his most treasured relationships began in childhood and endured for decades. He often spoke fondly of David Earl Cowling, whom he lovingly regarded as a second father, and of Jay Leon Martin, a lifelong friend whose companionship enriched his life immeasurably.
Travel brought Floyd some of his happiest memories. Having spent decades in aviation, he appreciated both the excitement of flying and, after retirement, the simple pleasure of a road trip through the beautiful landscapes of America. He and Melanie shared many memorable adventures together, including a treasured journey through New England, where they revisited places that held special meaning from his missionary service years earlier. He loved the peaceful countryside, historic towns, brilliant fall colors, and the rich history that shaped the nation he loved.
Among Floyd’s most cherished experiences were the moments spent with his family. He treasured vacations to Riviera Maya, Cancun, Cabo San Lucas, and Puerto Vallarta with Melanie, his daughter Amy, and his beloved grandsons, Ryker and Knox. He loved scuba diving alongside Amy in Roatán, Honduras, and throughout the Hawaiian Islands, creating memories they both carried close to their hearts.
An unforgettable Alaskan cruise with Melanie brought him face-to-face with majestic orca whales, breathtaking glaciers, and towering icebergs. True to his adventurous spirit, he eagerly rode the longest zip line in North America with a GoPro in hand and excitement in his heart. Another favorite memory was horseback riding through Bryce Canyon with his son-in-law Bryan. Floyd took great pride in completing the four-hour ride with ease and never missed an opportunity to lovingly tease Brian afterward for being considerably more sore than he was.
Above all else, Floyd cherished his family. He loved being a husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. Few things brought him greater joy than spending time with those he loved, sharing stories, offering advice, celebrating accomplishments, and creating memories that would last long after he was gone. His family was his greatest treasure, and his love for them was evident in every aspect of his life.
Floyd was preceded in death by his parents, Reulon Samuel Asher and Cleo Mathis Asher; his sisters, Mary, Mona, and Barbara; and many cherished friends whom he looked forward to seeing again.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Melanie Ruth Asher; his children, Kristin Farrar (Brian), Rodney Asher (Teresa), Jennifer Boheme (Kenneth), Allyson Asher, Jon Hartey, and Amy Jensen; seven grandchildren, Gabi Cazier (Tyler), Mariah Burns (Neal), Ethan Stone Espinal, Avery Hartey, Asher Hartey, Ryker Jensen, and Knox Lennox; and three treasured great-grandchildren, Sarah, Benjamin, and James Cazier. He also leaves behind numerous extended family members, neighbors, friends, and loved ones whose lives were forever enriched by knowing him.
The family would also like to express our profound appreciation to the wonderful neighbors who so selflessly watched over Floyd and Melanie, especially during the past year. Whether responding at a moment’s notice, lending a helping hand, assisting with projects, checking in, providing transportation, or simply being present when needed most, your kindness brought comfort, reassurance, and strength to our family. Thank you for caring for our parents as if they were your own family. Your generosity, compassion, and quiet acts of service will never be forgotten and will forever hold a special place in our hearts.
We also extend our sincere gratitude to Summit Hospice for the compassionate, gentle, and professional care provided during Floyd’s final days. Your kindness and support brought comfort and peace during one of the most difficult times in our lives.
Floyd leaves behind a legacy of faith, service, integrity, generosity, and unconditional love. He taught those around him that life’s greatest blessings are found not in possessions or accomplishments, but in faith, family, friendship, and service to others. His example will continue to guide and inspire all who were blessed to know him.
In Floyd’s own words:
“I want to be remembered as a father who deeply loves all of his children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and family members. Most of all, I want to be remembered as a son of God who strives to keep the covenants made with God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ.”
Funeral Services
Funeral arrangements are being handled by Hughes Mortuary.
A viewing will be held on Wednesday, September 23, from 10:00 a.m. to 11:45 a.m., followed by funeral services from 12:00 p.m. to 1:00 p.m., at 2436 E. Crimson Ridge Drive, St. George, Utah 84790.
The burial service will be held on Thursday, September 24, at 2:00 p.m. at Memorial Lakeview Cemetery, 1640 Lakeview Drive, Bountiful, Utah 84010. In honor of Floyd’s six years of dedicated service in the United States Air Force Reserves, Military honors will be rendered by the local Veterans Honor Guard in recognition of Floyd’s service and sacrifice.
Family and friends are warmly invited to gather together to honor, remember, and celebrate Floyd’s life.
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